I am a very Open minded person with a good sense of humor. I will give you the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. i have had enough of this already I was with a woman before whom we broke up 10 years ago after I realized I have feelings for men too, My Ex and my kids think was the hardest thing I’ve dealt with. I felt she was the love of my life and we 2 kids we always dreamed of together. I feel every life story needs to be told at least once because it makes us who we are and helps people understand us. We are who we are because of our past experiences. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning, that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. My kid is are with my care taker, In New York ever since I got away.